1. Jab aap koi utpad khareedte hain, to aap pehle keemat aur samapti tithi dekhte hain, lekin aap yeh kyon nahin dekhte ki aap apna keemti samay kahaan kharch kar rahe hain?
2. Aapka samay bahut mahatvapurn aur anmol hai; aap kisi bhi keemat par apna samay vaapis nahin khareed sakte. Isliye kripaya apna samay barbaad na karen.
3. Samay ki barbaadi kabhi bhi aapke jeevan mein vaapis nahin aati.
4. Lekin samay ki barbaadi samay ke saath aapki khushi ko khatm kar deti hai.
5. Samay bahut mahatvapurn hai. "Apne vartamaan samay mein achchha karen aur khud par vishvaas rakhen." Apna samay barbaad na karen. Aapka aane wala samay achchha hoga, aur aap khush mehsoos karenge.
Mujhe ek saral udaaharan se samjhaata hoon ki samay barbaad karna hamari khushi ko kaise nuksaan pahuncha sakta hai. Main aapko ek chhaatre ke jeevan se juda ek chhota sa udaaharan bataata hoon.
Udaaharan ke liye,
Jab ek chhaatre padhai ke liye ghar se nikalta hai, to vah apne saath kaee sapne aur aashaen lekar jaata hai. Aur shuruaat ke pehle maheene mein vah bahut achchhee tarah se padhai karta hai, aur uski aashaen aur sapne sach hote dikhaai dete hain. Aur ek maheene ke baad use lagane lagta hai ki abhee to bahut samay baaki hai. Poora saal baaki hai.
Yah sochakar vah apane padhai ke samay ko any kaamon mein baant deta hai jaise kuchh der YouTube dekhna, reels scroll karna, kuchh game khelna, doston ke saath ghoomna aur masti karna. In kaamon ke alaava ve padhai bhi karte hain taaki unhen aisa na lage ki ve apana samay barbaad kar rahe hain. Lekin asal mein, ve apana samay barbaad kar rahe hote hain.
Note: Sabhee bachche aisa nahin karate, lekin adhikaansh bachche aisa karate hain. Is tarah ve apana sabse mahatvapurn samay barbaad karate hain.
Aur jab unake pareekshaen nadeek aatee hain aur unake paas antim 2-3 maheene bachate hain, tab unhen ehasaas hota hai ki unhonne apana samay barbaad kar diya hai. Aur ve chaahate hain ki unhone poore saal achchhee tarah se padhai kee hotee.
Note: Yahan, teesara bindu lagoo hota hai - samay ki barbaadi kabhi bhi aapke jeevan mein vaapis nahin aati
Isliye aapako pachhataava nahin karana chaahie aur bache hue samay mein achchhee tarah se padhai karana chaahie. Pachhataava karane aur na padhane se aapake bache hue 2-3 maheene bhee barbaad ho jaayenge. Kuchh chhaatre apanee padhaee jaaree rakhate hain, lekin tab tak unaka paathyakram ek pahaad jaasa lagane lagata hai kyonki unake paas kaee adhyaayon ka backlog hota hai, aur unhen unhen yaad bhee karana hota hai.
Yadi unhone poore saal achchhee tarah se padhai kee hotee, to unaka paathyakram ek patthar ke tukade jaasa lagata, yaani unaka paathyakram unhen bahut aasaan aur chhota lagata, lekin bahut saara backlog karake ve in patthar ke tukadon ko ek bade pahaad mein badal dete hain, yaani unaka paathyakram bahut bada lagane lagata hai, aur paathyakram ko yaad karana aur poora karana bahut mushkil lagata hai. Aapane samajh liya hoga ki ek hee paathyakram ek ko aasaan aur chhota kyon laga aur doosare ko mushkil aur bada kyon laga.
Note:Yahan mera doosara bindu lagoo hota hai
Aapka samay bahut mahatvapurn aur anmol hai. Aap kisi bhi keemat par apna samay vaapis nahin khareed sakte. Isliye kripaya apna samay barbaad na karen.
- Aur ve 2-3 maheeno ke lie sabhee social media ko band kar dete hain aur yahaan tak ki apane doston ke saath ghoomana bhee band kar dete hain. Yah unake lie aasaan kaam nahin hota.
Unake sapne, jo shuruaatee maheeno mein sach hote dikhaai dete the, ab tootate hue dikhaai dete hain. Aur ve uchch dabav aur bahut dard ko sambhaalate hue padhai karte hain. Main shareerik dard kee baat nahin kar raha hoon. Is samay jo dard hota hai vah kuchh alag hota hai, jisase usakee aankhen aansuon se bhar jaatee hain. Yahaan tak ki kabhee-kabhee library mein padhate samay bhee usakee aankhen aansuon se bhar jaatee hain, lekin vah ise chhipa leta hai. Aur jab vah akela hota hai, to vah khulakar rota hai, aur use lagata hai ki usakee khushi kahaan kho gaee hai.
Yahan, mera chautha bindu lagoo hota hai:
4. Lekin samay ki barbaadi samay ke saath aapki khushi ko khatm kar deti hai.
Mujhe aasha hai ki aap samay ke mahatva ko samajh gaye honge.
Isliye kripaya apna samay barbaad na karen.
Samay mahatvapurn hai.
Apne vartamaan samay mein achchha karen aur khud par vishvaas rakhen.
Apna samay barbaad na karen.
Aapka aane wala samay achchha hoga, aur
aap khush mehsoos karenge.
Aarif Alam
I understand the value of time. Every moment is precious. Once time is gone, it never returns. I try to make each day better. Tomorrow begins now. ⏳❤️ What do you think?